First, ladies don’t kiss and tell. Also, gentlemen. It follows, don’t want their personal lives in public. So, sext messages are semi public text risky business. Given, good netiquette to refrain from sending pictures of ourselves no else is supposed to see. So, do not send personal graphic pictures. Given, semi-public.
Sext Messages Are Semi Public Netiquette
Next, phones are semi-public. Plus, messages save and share. These things make it a bad decision to send a sexually related text message. High probability someone else will see it. Since, we look for it.
For example, bra and panties could be acceptable on a private level. Also, underwear for men. But, a little much for some. Anything else is explicit. So, part of the act.
Sexual text messaging is not appropriate because cell phone screens can be read by those around you, among other things. In addition, others steal pics from phones.
Further, many significant others read the messages of their mates. A harmless sext can end a good relationship because of the implications.